ME MY SELF :"3

I'm not sleepy. I don't know what to do.

I have already post 3 entries today. But can I write another one?

K, I can. This is ma blog and I'm not sleepyyyy T.T

Me? My Self?

Absurd. Silly. hehee

I'm just the way I'm.

To be very honest, I'm moody. It's really hard to control my own mood. Stupid? No .. I'm genius-____-

I'm cool. Cool .. I mean insensitive. I'm too fool to understand things about feeling easily. K, let's not talking about love. Kinda tired.

I'm caring person. But I don't like to show it clearly. 

Just pretend to be ignorant. It will be better if someone know you from your "dark" side before they gonna know you well.

Let's talk about .. feeling. I promise you all it's not about love -_-

I'm the one who's not easily realize a signal that there's somebody like me.

I don't like the signal. It's really hard. I'm afraid that I get it wrong.

That's way I prefer people who says "Nda, I wanna be close to you. Let me try to approach you"

It will be better. Why? I can easily realize things that he does for me without feeling afraid that i will get it wrong.

About the result... time will answer it kan hahaha

Seriously I'm afraid if there's someone who wanna approach me.

Careful, don't take it seriously. It's not just you who aproach by him. There're other girls. Don't believe guys easily.

Ah .. I always think like that. That's why I never take that guys seriously. Why should I ?-____-

So, guys .. wanna get close to me ? Just say it clearly muehehehe :"3

Sorry for being this over-confident-______________-
Sorry .. it's about lo... i mean about feeling again-_- 

Ah anyway .. we will face a beauty date. 12-12-12 in a few minutes.
It's not my business. I'm single. I'm very happy.
I just wanna get a flower bouquet or any special ............
Dont take it seriously hehe  :""3

[WARNING] FRIEND ZONE!!

I don't know why I'm interested in this tittle. Friend Zone.

My friend said to me, "Nda .. if you don't want called by fake-hope-giver, just make sure and make them know that they are in a friend zone,"

I can get it easily. But I'm really interested to write this in ma blog. (It's almost 11pm and I did'nt sleep yet. insomnia and trying to be productive hehehe)

The "friend zone" refers to a platonic relationship where one person wishes to enter into a romantic relationship, while the other does not. It is generally considered to be an undesirable situation by the lovelorn person. Once the friend zone is established, it is said to be difficult to move beyond that point in a relationship. 

Friend zone's signs for you guys :"3

1. She/He calls you her brother

2. She/He talks about guys/girls with you, and she/he is not doing it to make you jealous.

3. She/He tells you everything on her mind.

4. She/He starts to date someone else.

5. There is no sexual tension. 

6. She/He doesn't flirt with you    

If I'm not wrong (for me my self), mostly .. this is a group of male-exlusive. There is general agreement that once a man is in the friend zone, it is difficult to get out. 

 I found some articles about staying out from friend zone or getting out from friend zone

Click it for read more, Ah this topic is really interesting hehe

How to escape from this friend zone ??

Click this :"3

 

Source:

 Wikipedia

Mademan

Afraid-To-Be-Liked Syndrome

Afraid To Be Liked Syndrome?? What is it ??

I don’t know exactly. But I’m suffering that syndrome :(

It has been so long. I’m always feeling afraid. It’s really silly. I know ……..

Traumatic ……?

Over-selective ……..?

I don’t know …..

Why I’m being single this long …? Hehehehe

Because of that syndrome. I will easily avoid that person, If I feel the signal.....

Signal that the person like me. Hmm .. I Know that it seems too confident hehehe who knows??

But … I’m just affraid.

Afraid to be hurted maybe. Or …

FYI, I’m a possessive one. Before now ..

But ..

I don’t know now they see me as an insensitive one.

No attention. Ignorant. Cool.

I can be easily sensitive about things called love and soon.

Fool, stupid or anything I don’t care.

I really don’t know. Not pretend that I don’t know whats going on.

I’m just .. afraid.

Afraid to something that I don’t know.

Afraid to something that absurd.

S I L L Y …….???????

Because of a “I Love You”

Somebody asked me why I deleted my recent post about that guy. I deleted that post because I don’t want to remember about un-important thing like that. So I will just remember and make it as a big lesson.

It’s about stiff and flexible. I’m living with people who have flexibility. I mean, they take my words easily. Our culture, maybe. From long time ago, from I was still a child. I was indirectly teached to express my feeling well. Sad, angry, happy or any others.

I’m an easy one. I mean, it’s not hard to say “I love you” though you are just a single lady hehe-_- im accustomed to express my self easily.

“Thank you yaa, I love you hehehehe”

“Bunda, already sent ? thankyou I love you”

“I love you, del..”

“I love you Kak!”

It just an expression for me. It shows us that saying “ I love You” isn’t a taboo anymore. I made sure my self, I asked my friend (boy) about this.

Me         : Kak, I always say love to you. How about that? Do you feel uneasy? Don’t like that? Am I wrong?

Him        : HAHAHA No, I know who you are. Maybe I just a lil bit “GR”

……………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………….

Me         : Rian, I always say love with you and others. But there are some people who take it seriously. I feel bad.

Rian       : Nanda, we have known each other for more than 3 years. I know about you so well. Why should I take it seriously ?? It depends on each person. How the way they interpreting your mean.

………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………..

Should I be a conservative one?-______-

I’m just the way I’m. A girl who easily express her feeling. But … silly.... There are some people who don’t like the way she expresses her feeling #tsahh

Ah maybe it was my own fault. The big lesson is ...... don't be tooooooo close with someone you don't know well and don't say anything that maybe they take seriously. 

So.. What's The Differences of Adoring, Liking and loving??

"Ndud, kalo cowok ngeliat cewek kan dari .. okelah ga munafik dari body yaa, kalo cewek?"

Di tanya beginian jadi mikir... Gue liat cowok dari sisi mana yaa ?.......

"Cool ..."cuman itu yang bisa gue jawab.

"Nah that's why, ukuran cewek ngeliat cowok atau sebaliknya itu beda. Itulah kenapa lebih dikenal guys thinking logically and girls thinking with her feeling. Cewek itu kebanyakan suka sama cowok yang cool, tenang .. gitu kan ?"

Yes......

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So .. how can i crush to someone? I don't know exactly. My close friends said that I'm the one who liking easily, getting hurted easily, and forgetting easily too. But hard to forgive hehe-_- That's why I need to know the differences of adoring, liking and loving. Theoretically, I know about the differences. But I don't know practically(?) hehehe-_-

Can somebody or someone tell me the differences ?? Though I know theoritically, sometimes I'm not sure with my feeling-_____- seems like useless... Am I that fool, hmm?-___-

Just a silly conversation, but I got it ...

 “Kak,  gue lagi naksir sama anak yg satu kelas di MK xxxxx. Cara ngedeketinnya gimana yaa, soalnya biasanya masalah utama gue, gue naksir orang. Orang itu ga naksir gue. Gue udah ga naksir lagi, eh dia malah nunjukin sinyal baik. Padahal kan gue gapunya feeling lagi.”

“Ndud, cowok itu mikir pake logika.”

“Lah terus???”

“Disaat elo naksir dia, cowok itu bingung. Dia butuh waktu berpikir. Nah setelah dia kelar mikir, dia baru bisa ngambil kesimpulan. Disaat dia udah ngerti apa yang harus dia lakuin, elo nya malah udah ga punya feeling lagi. Jadi feel nya ga ketemu”

Gue diem. Mikir. Mencerna kata demi kata hahaha. Oh jadi gitu kali yaa. Akhirnya gue dapet jawaban atas pertanyaan gue yang njelimet itu. 

“Tapi ndud, kalo elo emang bener suka, lo ga bakal secepat itu kehilangan feeling. Di sini lo harus bisa bedain, mengagumi sama menyukai dan mungkin mencintai”

“Terus bedanya apaaaa ???????????”

It was just a short and silly talks between my friend and i. But I got it. 

At that time, he said "Ndud, guys think with his logic. if you want into them, you have to think with your logic too. After being in a relationship, then you can push or force him to think with feeling"

I don't  know with these all. Too complicated, to be honest.... hehe-_-